A Different Child by Pandora MacMillian
People notice
There's a special glow around you.
As you grow
Surrounded by love,
Never doubting you are wanted;
Only look at the pride and joy
In your mother and father's eyes.
And if sometimes
Between the smiles
There's a trace of tears,
One day
You'll understand.
You'll understand
There was once another child
A different child
Who was in their hopes and dreams.
That child will never outgrow the baby clothes
That child will never keep them up at night
In fact, that child will never be any trouble at all.
Except sometimes, in a silent moment,
When mother and father miss so much
That different child.
May hope and love wrap you warmly
And may you learn the lesson forever
How infinitely precious
How infinitely fragile
Is this life on earth.
One day, as a young man or woman
You may see another mother's tears
Another father's silent grief
Then you, and you alone
Will understand
And offer the greatest comfort.
When all hope seems lost,
You will tell them
With great compassion,
"I know how you feel.
I'm only here
Because my mother tried again.
Beautiful poem ♥
ReplyDelete<3 =******))) its so true....i have read this poem on Maggies FB and its so true the last line "because my mother tried again" ...sigh...that is what i have been holding onto. I dont know if you are a big disney movie girl, but i love my disney movies and i got my courage to TTC from "Finding Nemo" i suggest you watch it too. Nemo's dad is a BLD...oddly enough the beginning is quite traumatic and I was surprised at the level of real life was in this movie, of course NONE of this stuck out to me until after alyssa passed away...watch the movie and you will totally see what i mean...xoxo thank you for sharing this with me
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you loved it so much...it touched me deeply as well!
ReplyDeleteOh my... This post brought me to tears. Thank you so much for sharing. I may "steal" this! :) So many people, I've heard refer to "rainbow babies" as replacements.... this poem... this poem describes so much.
ReplyDeleteThey are NOT replacements. They are loved just as much, and have a great story behind them! <3
{AND I LOVE THAT ANTOINETTE REFERS TO NEMO!! Haha! I never realized that Marlin was a BLD!!)